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  • Celebrating The Freedom To Be You: Sheye Banks And Mobola Tells Us How They Became Independent

    The path to becoming a creative in Nigeria isn’t easy. There are many factors that prevent young people from being their authentic selves; the biggest of all being our straitjacketed society. But what happens when one breaks free and begins to live life on their own terms? Being you is a huge feat; a fact Jameson Irish Whiskey aims to bring to the fore by celebrating the freedom to be you.

    We spoke to Sheye Banks of Soundcity and Mobola Awe of FOMO Lagos about how they found their voices and gained their independence to become who they are today.

    Sheye Banks

    How did you get started as an On-Air Personality?

    It started off with me being very angry — angry about the government, human rights abuses, and the general state of things in Nigeria. I just wanted to make a difference. Along the way, I found my purpose in being a radio presenter. 

    How?

    I took a break from school and went to the UK for a gap year. I went to visit a relative in the hospital one day and stumbled on a radio station. I heard the hosts of the show talking and I just fell in love with it. Immediately after I came back to Nigeria, I joined my school’s radio station, UNILAG FM.

    Was it smooth or did you face some challenges along the way?

    Oh, I did. My parents weren’t on board in the beginning. They were confused about why I wanted to become an OAP after spending so much money on my education studying Mathematics and Statistics at the University of Lagos, even after I spent more years in school than I should have.

    After University, I joined a radio station in Abuja but was getting paid peanuts, even after 6 years on the job. And my parents hated this.

    It was at the point I had to put my foot down and find my independence I insisted that this was what I wanted to do with my life, and they had no choice but to respect my decision. After my time at the radio station in Abuja, I came back to Lagos and that’s where my career really began to kick off.

    I also had to have hard conversations with myself. I knew that even though I was doing radio, I needed to do other things on the side before it took off. Now, aside from being an OAP, I’m a hype man, music executive, A & R, a multimedia entrepreneur, and many other things. All of this wouldn’t have happened if I didn’t decide to make independent decisions and remain in the radio industry. 

    That’s inspiring. It seems like you were determined from the start.

    Yes, but like everyone, I had my doubts when things weren’t going well. I went from wanting to be an aeronautical engineer to studying mathematics and statistics. At some point, I even wanted to be a motivational speaker because I spoke in church as a child. But radio was where I found my independence and my purpose. It was the first time I decided what I wanted for myself and went for it. I wasn’t doing it for the money. I was just very passionate about it, which I stuck with even when I wasn’t getting paid.

    Do you have any words for younger people trying to live their most authentic lives and going after what they want?

    The most important thing is to be yourself. We’re called On-Air Personalities for a reason – because your personality and your true self is the most important thing. It is crucial to be yourself in a way you can be proud of. Express yourself knowing you have a purpose and vision. Work towards greatness, and above all, be free. The sky’s the limit so don’t let anybody put you in a box. Consistency is far better than speed. When it’s time, it’ll pay off. This is why I identify with Jameson because I’m all for living authentically.

    Mobola:

    How did you get started with FOMO Lagos?

    When I moved back to Lagos in 2013 after uni, I figured there were a lot of activities to do in Lagos, but people seemed stuck on dining and clubbing. So, I went out of my way to find something different I could do in Lagos. My friends knew I was the go-to person when they wanted to do something different and that’s how I started FOMO Lagos, a page where I curate fun activities people can do while in the city. In a few months, the page developed a large following. 

    Was this what you always planned to do?

    Nah! I studied civil engineering and practised it for two years, but my soul wasn’t in it. 

    Did you face any difficulties with your decision to start FOMO Lagos?

    My parents were not pleased that I was focusing my efforts on FOMO Lagos, which led to my dad not speaking to me for a long time. But I knew I just had to break free and do this for me because it was what I wanted. I wanted to live my truth. Since I was little, I’ve always been a rebel. I chase whatever I want with my full strength so when they saw how passionate I was about it, they came around.

    That’s admirable. What do you do for fun?

    I enjoy listening to music and painting. I even wanted to be a DJ at some point, but for now, I’ll stick to making playlists, LMAO! I always tell young people that the fear that you’re not on the right path will always be there, but you have to learn to live with it. That’s no reason to stop. Also, just do what your gut tells you because that’s the real you.

  • All The Different Types Of Roommates in A School Hostel

    When you got admission into university, you were excited about a whole new life. You were ready to revel in a new kind of freedom, away from your parents and the annoying curfews and rules they set to curtail your movements. You thought about a lot of things: what to do, when to do it, how to have the most kind of fun in your new life without anyone overshadowing your movements or moments.

    You thought about your prospective roommate(s) too, but you didn’t give them much thought. How bad could it be? Who could be as horrible as the sibling you shared your room with? If only you had known that there was horrible and there was horrible. Once the life started, you started to amass stories because of these people, these roommates and their varying behaviours:

    The Annoying Cleaner

    You always thought you were clean enough. Growing up, you always heard that cleanliness was next to Godliness. You had that shit on lock – or so you thought until you met your roommate, and started to wonder if they were overdoing it, or you were only not as clean as you thought. At first, you couldn’t care less, so you watched in amusement when they complained about a sock on the floor, or plates you hadn’t washed in days.

    Then, it got real. You started to lose your stuff. At first, you thought you were tripping and blamed it on your forgetfulness. But it was happening way too much. You couldn’t be that forgetful. You did a little digging and found out your roommate had been moving your stuff because they thought they were what? Trash!!!

    “How dare you call my #500 recharge card trash because it was on the floor? Stay in your lane, puhlease!”

    You learned your lesson, though. Anything you needed was kept out of plain sight. Life could be easier, but you had to adapt.

    The Irritating Slob

    You probably thought your “please-this-place-could-be-cleaner-roommate” was the worst kind of person you would have to deal with. Heh! It was only a matter of time before you realised how wrong you were. You changed rooms and was prepared to settle into a new life. Your new roommate wasn’t overbearing as the last one. They didn’t trouble you over the littlest things. Ha, life was getting better.

    Then you started to notice a strange pattern; how the room would not be swept for days at a time if you didn’t do it. How making the bed in the morning was not a concept your new roommate was comfortable with. How your new roommate was not a fan of washing the dishes they used until weeks or months had passed. How their shoes were strewn around in the room, and their clothes were in a heap in a corner waiting to be attended to. And the worst of all, how they were so comfortable in the mess they lived in – thriving even.

    You realised what a fast life this was, because now, you were the irritable, overbearing one who needed to take things easier.

    The Turn-up Freak

    At this point, you thought about living alone, but it wasn’t up to you. Your account balance said no, so you forged on, ready for whatever came next. Again, you thought the worst had passed.

    You met your new roommate, and they seemed okay. You even had a honeymoon phase when everything was perfect. The new roommate was outgoing but it didn’t bother you. Soon, it became your problem. They started keeping late-nights or early-mornings, disrupting whatever you thought was fun during these moments e.g sleep. They had lost their key too, so you had to be the designated, irritated, and unpaid doorkeeper. Again, you stayed because you didn’t have a choice. That too shall pass you said to yourself.

    The Roommate Without A Leash

    At this point, you had given up. You were ready to face anything. You switched roommates again, and in came the new one. You knew something was off immediately you saw them. Their “over-friendliness” signaled an ominous feeling. You would find out soon enough. It started from borrowing little things you didn’t care about like your pen or something.

    Then, your clothes, shoes, and every other thing you cared about stopped being yours. All your talk about respecting boundaries fell into the void.
    You weren’t your own person, anymore. They owned you.

    Your Twin Personality

    Now, your spirit had been broken. You were going to have another roommate. You knew what to expect now; something about them would make your life miserable. Well, if that was it, it was it. You were only a pawn in the game. Things started smoothly, but you started to count down to when things would go horribly wrong.

    Nothing happened. Not in the first week, second, or third. Nor in the first month, second, or third month. You started to let yourself believe that nothing would go wrong, and for the most part, you were right!
    It took some time, but you found a match. One experience you could reminisce about without a dry taste hanging in your throat.

  • Lagos Traffic, Do You Want To Try Me Now?

    I was inside a bus, ears plugged in and generally minding my business when a random song popped in, courtesy of a random playlist on Apple music. Naturally, the first instinct was to skip to the next song, but Thank God —  or whatever you believe in — I didn’t do that. By the end of the second verse, I knew I had found a new anthem; one that filled me with a particular sense of liberation. I don’t know what exactly Tems was thinking when she wrote and performed “Try me”, but if I would guess, it was her middle-finger gesture to something or someone. And now, it is that exact thing to me. 

    By the end of my bus ride, I felt like I’d been thrown into some sort of superhero movie. 

    Since I discovered the song in the middle of Lagos road and traffic, I’ve thought about how this song could get me through all I hated about the road and its elements.

    Lagos Conductors, Someone is Ready to match your Craziness

    We all know for a fact that the angel in charge of home training conveniently missed Lagos conductors when he was dishing the virtue out. And what did we get because of that? Daily doses of uncouthness. I could live with regular verbal onslaught, but we have to draw a line when my money is kind of involved. And boy, do they like to take your change if the chance pops up.

    Well, guess what? Since I heard “Try Me”, that #50 I would normally let go of when they pair me with a random stranger during Monday rush hour is mine to fight for. And in the midst of this, if the conductor feels like he’s the street designated verbal merchant, I now have an armory of words at my disposal to unleash. I always thought that I was not made for the craziness in this city, but with the lyrics of this song wafting in my head, maybe I stand a chance. We die here!

    Bike Riders, A New Speed Enthusiast Has Joined The Race

    Oh boy, how much I used to hate situations where I’ve got no choice but to jump a bike. Those guys love their speed, don’t they? For some reason, your “Kanda kanda” or “small-small, Oga” only feeds their thirst to get more distance between them and the next vehicle. What do bad roads and the death traps in them mean to them?

    But maybe I don’t need to worry about that anymore. Nothing has happened so far, has it? Maybe all I need now is to plug my ears, turn the volume up and enjoy the trip I paid for? I am the Ganja, they are the lighter.

    Traffic, You Can’t Break Me Now!

    For the longest time, this city’s traffic has filled me up with the deepest sense of despair. I mean, what could be crazier than spending the equivalent of your whole trip on a spot?

    But why do I bother, really? It’s crazy that I needed a song to tell me that. I broke out of my chains, guys; I broke out of my chains.

    I don’t know if you have listened to “Try me” or how it works for you. But it works for me perfectly. It’s like I have discovered traffic in this city in a whole new light. And if that is not freedom, I don’t know what else I can call it.

    Maybe I would go back to the old me if my encounter with a conductor hits the roof, or if my new need for speed gives me a scar, or if my new found love for Lagos traffic makes me so comfortable that I miss out on some important appointment. But for now, let me just revel in my new found freedom. I can’t let anything try me now.

  • The 10 Best Burna Boy Deep Cuts

    In the past two years, Burna Boy has put out enough music in albums and singles, that his new fans have sufficient music to lose themselves in. For an artist in his seventh year, Burna has even more music than you know. You may only have noticed after he began dropping singles every three months from mid-2017, but the Port Harcourt-born singer is arguably Nigeria’s most prolific A-lister not named Olamide. As of the time of writing this, he’s dropped two mixtapes, three albums and a collaboration project.

    Burna Boy’s fourth studio album is set for release on August 26, 2019. In the 18 months since 2016’s “Outside“, Burna’s stock has risen – as seen in the past one week with his spot on Beyoncé’s “The Lion King: The Gift” and his appearance on American talk show host, Jimmy Kimmel’s show. “African Giant” has been described as a late-night take on afro-fusion, the genre Burna has worn like a tattoo since his first days. Perhaps more importantly, it is supposed to be his most personal album yet, a tag I used to describe “Outside” as well.

    For first time entrants into Burna Boy’s hazy, energetic kingdom, as well as the fans and fanatics he calls “Outsiders”, we made a list of Burna’s lesser-known gems – songs you’ve likely never heard on the radio and only true fans will know. In no order, these are Burna Boy’s 10 best deep cuts to help you get ready for the album.

    • Burna Boy – “Agbada”

    Some would say Burna is at his best when he gets personal. I wouldn’t disagree. The afro-fusion artist has a chequered past. When he gets into the gritty details or references his street cred as he does in “Agbada”, it makes for a great listen. The beat might remind you of OJB’s early reggae-influenced production. What steals the show, however, is Burna’s incredibly-vivid boasts and gang-speak that makes this feel like a call to war.

    • Leriq – “Cotton Candy” feat. Burna Boy

    If you listen closely to his more sensual tracks like Gwarn or Rock Your Body, you’ll hear it loud and clear. Burna Boy believes he’s a catch. When you’re a 28-year old with a messiah complex and boundless talent, it’s bound to be the case. On a beat by Leriq, who’s thought by many to be his most ideal collaborator, Burna explains why he’s as desirable as cotton candy. Pride has never sounded so good.

    • Burna Boy – “Chillin Chillin” feat A.I.

    In 2017, Ghanaian artistes, DJ Vision and A.I. released “Grind“, a gritty tale of sacrifice and survival. Burna Boy heard a song that was right down his alley and in weeks, released an updated version titled “Chillin Chillin”. Despite the controversy that followed its release, Burna’s version is so different that it’s a whole new song in its own right.

    • Burna Boy – “Celebrate”

    Shortly after “Like To Party” and “L.I.F.E” introduced his new sound, everyone wanted a taste of Burna Boy. Abuja-based producer, GospelBeatz was one of the producers he would strike a solid relationship with. Released in 2013, “Celebrate” was their first of few collaborations. The beat is fast-paced and filled with heavy drums, just as Burna likes it. Burna sings with the enthusiasm you’d associate with a freestyle, but whether it’s written or not, “Celebrate” is still a solid listen today in 2019.

    • Burna Boy – “Smoke” (feat. Onos)

    At a point in the early 2010s, more people knew this song than Burna Boy. Burna’s rare blatant approval of marijuana made sure it would become a cult classic, but the best part is arguably how Burna manages to sound like he’s singing to a loyal wife. The emotion is so strong that when fellow PH singer, Onos decides to sing about love, Burna cuts him off by saying “some man dem try change the topic”, even though “marijuana has never ever done me wrong” Obviously, this one didn’t make it to the radio. I can’t imagine what would have happened if it did.

    • Burna Boy – “Freedom”

    “Freedom” is seen by many as the song that broke Burna out in his home town in Port Harcourt. It is one of the singles off his “Burn Identity” mixtape and arguably his most personal song ever. From the very first word, Burna sings with heavy sentiment about the yet-undetailed events of his arrest and jail stint in the UK. The most striking part is arguably how he acknowledges the effect on his parents, making it a story that anyone who’s been in his shoes can relate to. A gem.

    • Burna Boy – “Touch Your Toes”

    Of the songs on this list, this is the only one that made it to radio. New to the Lagos pop market, Burna was on the hunt for a sound that sat somewhere between his afro-fusion tastes and the popular fast-paced dance music of the moment. “Touch Your Toes” was one of many such attempts. Burna kicks off the song in the most stereotypical way possible. What’s best about this song is the conversational tone and rapid delivery that would come to define Burna Boy’s music in the years after.

    • Burna Boy – “Smooth Sailing”

    The question of whether Burna Boy’s debut album, L.I.F.E is a classic is still up in the air. One song that most Outsiders seem to agree on, however, is “Smooth Sailing”, a cut from the album. On an album filled with quick dance tracks, the track is more mid-tempo and misty. Though he may not be known as a songbird, Burna’s raspy voice is entrancing when he gets in his bag as he does on this song. Although it starts off with thumping drums, Smooth Sailing gives you the same feeling as the title suggests; sipping ‘Guinness’ and a ‘spliff’ and living life to the fullest.

    • Chip – “Reaching” (feat. Burna Boy)

    In 2016, UK rapper Chipmunk had grown tired of trying unsuccessfully to break into the US market. As he made his return home, Chipmunk tapped Burna Boy for “Reaching”, a song that sought to reference Chip’s popularity in the motherland. The real star of the song though is Burna. Seen by most as being stuck in limbo at the time, Burna used the song to hint at the elements that would propel his global campaign. The hook is as Afropop as they come, with lyrics sung in Yoruba about haters and competitors. But Burna pulls it off well on a UK rap joint because as we’ve come to realise, he’s the best mix of both worlds.

    • Burna Boy – “Where I’m From”

    My favourite Burna Boy deep cut comes from his most recent album, “Outside”. Burna has been described as many things through the years – ‘self-indulgent’, ‘problematic’, ‘arrogant’. But very few have afforded him the courtesy of a fair reasoning or used the term, ‘misunderstood’. On this cut, Burna basically describes how the places he’s lived in (or where he’s from) have shaped the man he’s known as. The song is a vivid description of Port Harcourt’s street culture that gives you a peek into Burna’s mind. 10/10. Absolutely recommend.


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  • Everything That Happens When Your Parents Travel For the Weekend

    1. You when you hear your parents are travelling for the weekend:

    Home Alone 4! It’s time to party! Sleep over of life! No Saturday cleaning!

    2. You start planning how to throw the coolest party for all your friends.

    3. Then your parents sit you down to give you the rules of engagement while they will be away.

    You must go to bed at 8. Put off the gen at 7. Nobody must enter the house.

    4. And your mother gives you a list of chores to “keep busy”.

    …because an idle mind is the devil’s workshop and you don’t want to help the devil to start making furniture.

    5. But you already know you will put off the work until the last minute.

    6. When your parents ask a neighbour to “check in on you from time to time”.

    They say it is in case of an emergency, but you know the real reason is so they can keep an eye on you.

    7. But you’re smarter than that.

    Only learners get caught and you ain’t no learner.

    8. You invite your friends over in the morning.

    And tell them to come with books so it looks like y’all are studying.

    9. Your parents call like every five minutes to “check in”.

    You probably talk to them more in that one weekend than you ever did in your entire life.

    10. And during every call, they’re suspicious of every noise and ask you a dozen questions every time.

    Where are you? What is that noise? Have you locked the gate? Have you put off the generator? Have you started sleeping? Did you invite anybody to the house?

    11. You handle the calls like a pro and try to keep your voice mellow even though you’re hyped up on too much sugar they had warned you not to have.

    12. What your parents imagine you’re doing while they’re away:

    13. What you wish you were doing:

    …if your friends hadn’t bailed on you.

    14. What you are actually doing:

    15. When your parents call to tell you they’re on their way back home:

    So soon? Why the rush?

    16. How they expect to find the house:

    17. Their reaction when the house is neat and tidy, all your chores are done and you even have food prepared for them:

    18. And then they ask you, “So what happened while we were away?”

    Like you’re going to tell them everything. Uh…nothing much.
  • 7 Iconic Pictures From Nelson Mandela’s Years In Prison
    On the 11th of February, 1990 in South Africa, the revolutionary anti-partheid activist, Nelson Mandela, was freed after 27 long years in prison. In 1964, he was tried and sentenced to a life in prison for sabotage.

    1. To Robben Island Prison Yard

    Mandela, with some other political prisoners, raise their hands in the popular fist salute – a symbol of resistance to apartheid rule.

    2. Mandela and Walter Sisulu

    Walter Sisulu was a fellow inmate in Robben Island Prison Yard. He later became an important politician and served as the ruling party’s (ANC) Deputy President.

    3. Prisoners doing manual labour

    Amongst them was Mandela. He spent most of his time on Robben Island working on a quarry, crushing limestone.

    4. Learning in prison

    Mandela actually bagged a law degree in prison and if that’s not badass, we don’t know what is! He also learned to speak the local Afrikaans language to better communicate with the inmates.

    5. A low class prisoner

    Mandela was at first a Class D prisoner – the lowest grade ever, so he’d poop in a trash can and eat in the same place. In 1975, he was moved up to a Class A.

    6. Behind bars

    Even in prison, he was a good troublemaker and that earned him solitary confinement regularly. He got a letter and a visit every 6 months.

    7. Long walk to freedom with his wife, Winnie Madikizela Mandela

    Even though he’d been pushing for it, Mandela was still very surprised at the sudden announcement of his release. He went on to become the country’s first black president in 1994.