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2021 | Zikoko!
  • QUIZ: Which Chiwetalu Agu Quote Sums Up Your 2021?

    2021 has been a crazy year and what’s a better way to sum it up than in the incomprehensible words of Chiwetalu Agu.

  • The Year in Alté: 12 Songs That Got Us Through 2021

    Despite being another variant of 2020, 2021 was still a pretty great year for Nigerian music. With major crossovers between the alternative and mainstream pop music scene, this was a very experimental year musically and we loved every bit. As we round up the year, we decided to look back at some of the alternative songs that popped up on our radar in 2021. 

    Selense – Cavemen 

    The Cavemen stole our hearts in 2020 with the release of their debut album ROOTS. Drowning us in nostalgia, palm wine and pure enjoyment, it comes as no surprise that their second album, Love & Highlife follows the same direction. As the loverboys that they are, on  Selense we find the brothers professing their undying love yet again. What would normally sound corny, ends up being so cute we can’t stop blushing. God save us from Igbo men. 

    Angel – Solis 

    While Angel is a sultry standout from Solis’ seductive new project Stairway to Heaven, SoundCloud babies like us have known this song for a while now. There’s something about Solis’ voice that makes us want to fall in love, cuddle and make babies, but omo, streets are tough right now. 

    Again – Tomi Thomas

    Tomi Thomas’ music makes us want to travel to an island somewhere, relax by the beach and just be taken care of. One of the OGs of the alté movement, his ability to creatively mix Nigerian and Island influences is something that should be studied in schools. No one is doing it like Tomi Thomas and we’re obsessed. 

    Searching – Lady Donli 

    One minute she’s asking you to enjoy your life and the next — and without skipping a beat — she’s forcing you to examine all the life decisions you’ve been making as you embark on a journey of self-discovery. This, right here, is the power of Lady Donli and also why Searching was one of the few songs that really moved us this year. 

    The Tree – Dwin, the Stoic and TiwaDara

    “Cos I came too far to let these naysayers get their laughs. They’re fine with the fruits, but I’m taking the tree”. On this song, we are serenaded by Dwin’s vocals as he takes us on a journey of understanding self worth, as we reclaim our time and give our haters the middle finger (but with panaché and class). This was our anthem in 2021 and there’s a strong possibility that we’re carrying it over into the new year. 

    Deeper – Ogranya and Brum3h

    Remember when R&B men used to profess their love while break dancing under the rain? Good ole days. While Ogranya and Brum3h haven’t dropped the visuals for this song, their vocals remind us of those classic baby making music we shouldn’t have been listening to when we were young. These men can sing sha. 

    Crazy Tings – Tems 

    It’s Tem’s world and we’re all just living in it. Taking over the charts and scoring a feature on Drake’s album, 2021 was the year of Tems and she honestly didn’t need no other body. The first single from her latest EP, Crazy Tings wasn’t love at first listen for us, but now we can’t stop listening to this earworm. By the way, we are still judging all of you that sing “happening” instead of “appuning”. Tems said what she said. 

    Peaking – Tay Iwar

    If there’s one thing Tay Iwar does well, it’s getting us deep in our feels. He could literally sing the phonebook and we’d lay down, stair into space, thinking about love and life. The Love and Isolation EP is Tay Iwar at his best — subtle, vulnerable and beautifully honest. Closing out the EP, Peaking might have inspired us to call our exes, but then again, YOLO. 

    Gone Girl – Obongjayar and Sarz

    Obongjayar appeared on our radar right before the pandemic thanks to his incredible EP Which Way is Forward? After providing a soulful soundtrack for the lockdown, Obongjayar teamed up with superstar producer Sarz for a record that helped soundtrack our nights back on the streets in 2021. Sweetness, the EP is a fun ride, but Gone Girl is the song that gets us to our destination. 

    Civil War – Isah the Prince featuring Efe Oraka, Nvthy and Kabasii

    2020 was a tough year for young Nigerians. Following the events of the #EndSARS protests and the serious gaslighting that followed, there was an undeniable feeling of hopelessness and confusion in the air. And while it’s still hard to be gingered about Nigeria at the moment, something about this song seems to have activated our last two brain cells to fight not just for our country, but our lives as well. With a diverse group of talents, this is one song that helped us deal with the gbas gbos Nigeria kept throwing our way. 

    Tycoon – Show Dem Camp

    No one is touching Show Dem Camp when it comes to this rap thing. This song is just four minutes of Ghost, Tec and their guest stars flexing on us and to be honest, they’ve earned the rights. While we love their palmwine love music, we all know Show Dem Camp truly shines when they’re being disrespectful AF with hard truths and confidence on their Clone Wars series. 

    Jaded – Yinka Bernie 

    In a time where beats seem to be the driving force of most of the songs we consume, Yinka Bernie stands out with a voice that seduces and questions you at the same time. After a long hiatus, he makes a grand return with Jaded and trust us, it was all worth the wait. 

  • Love Life: 10 of the Most-Read Love Life Stories In 2021

    Love Life is a Zikoko weekly series about love, relationships, situationships, entanglements and everything in between.


    When I think of a Zikoko series with the most exciting (and often unexpected stories), Love Life comes to mind first. Each time Mariam and I get the chance to interview a couple, we always wonder what their love life is like, and by the end of each interview, we are always surprised, awed, heartbroken, or motivated to go out there and find the love that exists for us.

    We are not the only ones who feel this way. You, our readers, do too. You read each story we put out, share them with friends and sometimes come back to read a particular story, again and again. By our records, here are some of the Love Life stories you enjoyed a lot this year.

    We love you, and that’s why we are bringing them back to you this holiday so you can feel anew, the same joy and romance — and surprise — you felt when you encountered each story for the first time.

    1. Love Life: We Kept Finding Our Way Back To Each Other

    Victor, 31, and Wendy, 29, have been married for three years, and they’ve been friends since they were kids. For today’s Love Life, they talk about finding their way back to each other amidst exes, distance and bad decisions. 

    Read here.

    2. Love Life: We Love Our Partners, But We Can’t Stop Having Sex

    Ijeoma*, 26, and Peter*, 29, have been friends with benefits for 2 months. For today’s Love Life, they talk about satisfying their primal needs while maintaining serious relationships with other people. 

    Read here.

    3. Love Life: When You Know, You Just Know

    Chuba, 32, and Mohini, 27, have been together for over five years. For today’s Love Life, they talk about realising they were perfect for each other, coming back from multiple breakups and navigating long distance.

    Read here.

    4. Love Life: We Have Decided To Let Each Other Go

    Angel*, 29, and Akin*, 37, are deeply in love, but they are trying to go their separate ways. For today’s Love Life, they talk about getting back together after their first breakup and finally choosing to “decouple” due to their religious beliefs.

    Read here.

    5. Love Life: We’re No Longer Together, But We’re Life Partners

    Mezie*, 32, and Oge*, 31, went from friends to lovers to friends who occasionally have sex. For today’s Love Life, they talk about being life partners even though they know they can never get back together. 

    Read here.

    6. Love Life: Opening Our Marriage Felt Natural

    Charles*, 31, and Rukky*, 30, have been together for a little over a decade. For today’s Love Life, they talk about opening their marriage, dating other people as a unit and why communication is the most important thing.

    Read here.

     

    7. Love Life: It Was Love At First Talk

    Akintunde, 35, and ‘Depeju, 26, knew they would marry each other after speaking on the phone for the first time. For today’s Love Life, they talk about fighting for the first few months of their relationship, how they got past that and what it feels like to become parents. 

    Read here.

    8. Love Life: We Fell In Love While Cheating With Each Other

    Farida*, 27, and Favour*, 28, have been together for one year. For today’s Love Life, they talk about cheating on their ex-partners with each other as a form of self-care and eventually falling in love.

    Read here.

    9. Love Life: We Were Made For Each Other

    Uwem, 33, and Blessing, 27, have been together since 2010. For today’s Love Life, they talk about transitioning from being close friends to lovers and eventually getting married.

    Read here.

    10. Love Life: We Were Best Friends In Secondary School, But Now We’re Both Married

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    Teslim*, 28, and Chibuzo*, 29 dated for four years and have been married for three. Today on Love Life, they talk about transitioning from secondary school best friends to lovers, starting their tech careers together and how they struggled with long distances before marriage.

    Read here.

    Check back every Thursday by 9 AM for new Love Life stories here. The stories will also be a part of the Ships newsletter, so sign up here.

    If you want to share your own Love Life story, fill this form.

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  • QUIZ: How Many People Did You Sleep With In 2021?

    COVID was still outside this year, but we know it didn’t stop you from getting some action here and there. This quiz will accurately tell how many people you’ve slept with tis year.

    Think we’re lying? See for yourself:


  • QUIZ: How Much Money Will You Make In 2021?

    Do you want to prepare for all the money coming your way in 2021? Then take this quiz to find out how much money you will make in 2021

  • QUIZ: When Will You Find Love In 2021?

    What to know when in 2021 you finally find love? Take this quiz


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  • QUIZ: How Many Relationships Will You Enter In 2021?

    2020 ended with a lot of “I/She said yes.” If you want your own testimony to come soon, then it’s time to start dating seriously. This quiz knows how many relationships you will have to endure this year.

    Find out:

  • QUIZ: How Long Will Your New Year’s Resolution Last?

    It’s another new year to set unrealistic goals for ourselves. Take this quiz to find out how long your new year’s resolution will last.

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  • QUIZ: How Many Hearts Will You Break This Year?

    We accurately guessed how many hearts you broke last year. This year we want to predict how many hearts you’ll break.

    Take the quiz and we’ll tell you.

  • QUIZ: What Will 2021 Bring You?

    2020 was an objectively awful year, and now that it’s over, all we want is for 2021 to be better. So, we’ve created a quiz that can predict what this new year will bring your way.

    Take it: