1. When your parents ask you how you are getting home which means they are no longer buying your ticket.
2. When your small cousins start sending you Christmas wishlist.
3. When people start asking you to throw your own christmas party.
4. When your parents no longer force their own plans on you and start asking you what your plans are.
5. When your family gives you your share of a shopping list, for the family party.
6. When you now have an option between going to church or attending a party.
7. When your parents no longer buy you presents because you are not a baby anymore
