We always tell guys to “shoot your shot”. Set that P. Seize that bae. Slide into that DM. History has made men the initiators of love and relationships.

But that history is changing. Men aren’t the only ones taking a bold move. Women are coming out to stake their claim as well.

However, according to this guy, it appears we’re doing a shitty job at it.

Girls shoot the shittest shots

— … (@Unkle_K) May 24, 2017

If you’re a lady and you’re trying to shoot your shot by liking all of a guy’s pictures and tweeting at him, you’re doing it all wrong.

He just won’t plain see it.

I can never see the signs 😪

— … (@Unkle_K) May 24, 2017

If you want to successfully shoot your shot, you’re going to have to be VERY obvious with your signs. Just, maybe not this obvious:

https://twitter.com/_clvrarose/status/867447272342253569

If you’re going to try and shoot your shot, maybe don’t start a convo like this:

https://twitter.com/smish001/status/867425713464500224

And know that liking his pictures on IG isn’t enough:

https://twitter.com/Lord_Lightskinn/status/867491312374865920

You also shouldn’t expect him to get the hint just because you RT or like his tweets.

https://twitter.com/dephrank/status/867431866219073536

Generally, just don’t bother trying to drop any hints. Guys don’t see them.

https://twitter.com/_HeroOfStLouis/status/867496030308376576

You have to be as clear as day. No dropping small small hints like salt bae.

Instead, go straight to the point.

Lmao what exactly do you want. "Hi, I like you, can we be friends? " Shey that's what we should do?

— Tumini Abbey Ordu (@TutuAbbey) May 24, 2017

Appaz, “Hey, big head”, is also a good way to go.

she shoulda added, "Hey, Big head " 😁. That, fam, is declaration of intent.

— Temitope- The Joyful One! (@TopeSofe) May 24, 2017

But wouldn’t life be easier if guys could just take a damn hint already!

Just take the damn hint pic.twitter.com/i87RNOGnAs

— Alexis Johnson (@alexis_lorenn) May 24, 2017

Seriously guys, you might want to pay more attention to the people liking your tweets.

Don’t come and be a slacking pant like this one:

So if a female likes @ least 2 of pics then it's a sign of interest in me? Wawu! I don dull

— Obinna Isaac (@Obaino_Isaac) May 24, 2017

The truth is, when a girl likes a guy, she just tries to respect herself. Just see:

https://zikoko.com/list/25-things-happen-like-boy-youre-trying-respect/