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  • Nollywood Female Characters Are Messy, AKA Revolutionary

    Female characters in Nollywood have shifted from being punished for every mistake to being totally badass and getting away with it. We’re finally witnessing an era where women can be messy, chaotic AF or downright evil and still have the audience and script rooting for them.

    If there’s one bible verse old Nollywood didn’t play with, it’s the famous Romans 6:23 verse that says, “For the wages of sin is death…” An unspoken rule that meant every character who fucked up morally or religiously would have to face the consequences of their actions. But for some reason (patriarchy, duh), men would find redemption at the end of the movie while the women just ended up as sad cautionary tales. 

    I can bet if you watched the film where that meme of your favourite old Nollywood baddie originated from, you’d throw hands at how she was treated

    The wages of being a woman

    Back then, the reward for premarital sex was an unwanted pregnancy, followed by an abortion in a dingy clinic and either death or a destroyed womb. Meanwhile, the man you had sex with gets to thrive and live his best life. 

    What if you saved yourself for marriage as a female character and met the love of your life? Well, through no fault of your own, he’d either use you for rituals or another woman will use juju on him (it’s never his fault), while the rest of the world looks to you to fast, pray and hold on to your home until some pastor breaks the juju right before the film fades into “To God Be The Glory”.

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    It was a lose-lose situation for the female characters I grew up watching. They served as either plot devices in the male character’s story or a conversation about respectability politics. These women were not allowed to fuck up or fall apart, and it wasn’t fair or realistic. 

    Today, while there’s room for improvement, women are finally leading their own story and dodging the bullets old nollywood society says karma would throw their way. It feels fantastic to root for Eniola Salami (King of Boys) as she blows shit up in a male-dominated crime underworld and simultaneously root for Kemi and Sarah (Blood Sisters) as they bury the body of an abuser

    We get to scream “yass” as Inem (Shanty Town) literally kicks ass and wonder how Uche (A Sunday Affair) still ended up with $250,000, a hot ass man and a baby after sleeping with her best friend’s man. None of these women are perfect, but that’s what makes them delicious to watch. 

    Let’s talk about what’s causing the change for a minute.
    The short answer is women

    For the longest time, the problem with female characters in Nollywood was the feeling that they were written by men or women trying to serve the fantasies of these men — who else will believe that the man a woman said “no” to will end up being stinkingly rich, while she rolls on the floor in regret? These female characters couldn’t afford to be complex. They had to be one thing and one thing only. 

    With more female writers and directors occupying space behind the scenes, Nollywood is changing. These changes might seem inconsequential, but the truth is, they’re important. Society has repeatedly failed to give women opportunities, and when they do, these women are never allowed to make mistakes, even when their male counterparts are shitting all over the place. By showing these complex women who go to extremes and come back in one piece, Nollywood is telling women that it’s okay to mess up.

    And though providing representation for women, no matter how unhinged they are, won’t immediately make society extend grace to real-life women, the creation of these characters is still a revolutionary act.

    Please, don’t kill anyone sha.

    ALSO READ: These 24 Nollywood Characters Are The Same But in Different Fonts

  • Thriving and Killing It: 12 Times Nigerian Women in Music Made History

    Women are constantly raising the bar for every industry they operate in and the Nigerian music scene is no different. Despite the challenges women have continued to show up and show out — thriving and kicking butts like it’s nobody’s business. To celebrate International Women’s Day, we join TurnTable Charts in documenting the incredible ways Nigerian women have made history in the music industry.

    1. 2006 — Asa becomes the first artist to win the Headies’ Next Rated Award

    No one was doing it like Asa when her album Asha  dropped back in the day. With songs like Fire on the Mountain and Jailer, we were introduced to a thought-provoking artist amid the feel-good dance music that had overtaken the airwaves. Asa was a game-changer back then, and if her new album is any indicator of the future, our queen will remain a game-changer for a long time to come. 

    2. 2008 — TY Bello wins Best New Act at the Nigerian Entertainment Awards

    TY Bello’s solo album after years in the band, Kush, was a major success with its lead single, Green Land, becoming an anthem and a choreography presentation staple at graduations all over the country (we all did that dance, don’t worry). Even though the land is looking like it’s no longer green, and baby girl is now heavily focused on photography, she’ll always remain an iconic part of our modern music history. 

    3. 2010 — Mocheddah becomes the youngest winner of the MTV Africa award for Best New Artist

    Please, where is Mocheddah? This babe came out of nowhere, dropped a couple of bangers and just…disappeared. Once upon a time, Wizkid and Mocheddah were tipped as the future of Nigerian music and boy, do we miss the good old days. From Ko Ma Roll to If You Want Me, Mocheddah was THAT girl abeg. 

    4. 2018, 2019, 2021 — Tope Alabi becomes the most played artist on Boomplay

    Religious or not, Tope Alabi’s music gets us in our gut. We don’t know how she does it, but we know for sure that she does it well. An icon when it comes to gospel music in Nigeria, Tope overtook everyone from Wizkid to Burna Boy, becoming the most played artist on Boomplay in 2018. Her album, Yes & Amen was also the most streamed album on Boomplay in 2018 and 2019, with its title track leading the Year-End Songs Chart on the app in 2019 as well. Come through, ma’am. So much love it!

    RELATED: These Women Paved the Way for Afrobeats, So Give Them Their Flowers 

    5. 2019 — Teni’s Uyo Meyo is the last song by a female artist to win Record of the Year at the Headies

    There’s something about Uyo Meyo that just injects ginger into our veins and inspires us to hustle. While songs like Askamaya and Case showed Teni as a feel-good artist who didn’t take herself too seriously, Uyo Meyo showed us another side of the hitmaker. Now with her debut album from 2021 still blazing up the charts, it’s touching to see all the dreams she sang about coming true in real-time. *hold’s back tears*

    6. 2020 — Simi’s Duduke is the first song by a female artist to lead the YouTube Nigeria Top Songs Year-End Chart

    • It was also the number one song on YouTube Nigeria in 2020
    • Simi also ended as the number one female artiste in 2020

    When she’s not out on the interwebs doing cute stuff with Adekunle Gold, Simi is steadily dropping bangers left, right and centre. Duduke became a big anthem in 2020, and even though some of us can’t afford those troublesome tiny humans, for a split second, we considered ordering them online or something. By the way, Miss Simi, how far the new album you’ve been teasing? We’re already in March dear. 

    7. 2020 — Mercy Chinwo becomes the overall top gospel artist

    From competing at Project Fame to dropping one of the most popular gospel songs of all time, Excess Love, Mercy Chinwo has been really busy. 

    8. 2021 — Tiwa Savage becomes the most awarded female afrobeats artist in history

    Number one African bad gyal is not a title you give yourself unless you have the receipts to prove it and omo, Tiwa has plenty of receipts. How do you want it: PDF or Word? From the Headies to the MOBOS and the MTV EMAs, Tiwa’s award cabinet must be the size of a small football pitch by now. And with three albums, three EPs and a truckload of hits to her name, Ms. Savage deserves all her flowers.

    9. 2021 — Tems becomes the first female artist to receive an RIAA certification with Essence

    • She was also the most streamed female artist in Nigeria

    t’s Tems’ world, and we’re all just renting self-contains in it. While Try Me made her a household name in Nigeria, 2020’s Essence with Wizkid turned our homegirl into a global superstar with everyone from Rihanna to Adele famzing our fave. She also made history debuting on the Billboard Hot 100 and becoming a Tommy Hilfiger spokesperson. There’s no stopping Tems and for the rest of us, well, we’re just here for the ride. 

    10. 2021 — Sinach is the most viewed Nigerian music artist on YouTube 

    Are you surprised? With the countless Way Maker covers and remixes, it’s clear that Sinach is walking in serious power and miracles, and we’re here for all of it. 

    11. 2021 — Ayra Starr becomes the first female artist to reach number one in Nigeria as a solo artist with Bloody Samaritan  

    How did a 19 year-old Lagos girl become one of the biggest stars of 2021? Well, Ayra Starr was born for this. Coming into the game with confidence and artistry well beyond her age, Ayra’s debut single, Away, dropped from nowhere and immediately became a hit. By the time Bloody Samaritan dropped, we were all registered members of the Ayra Starr fan club (Mobstarrs?). The best part?  She’s just getting started

    12. 2021 — Fave becomes the first artist to reach number one in Nigeria with a single off their debut project with Baby Riddim

    There was no way we could escape Baby Riddim last year, even if we tried. If you turned to your right, “My baby good!” and if you mistakenly turned to your left, “My baby bad!” — this song was everywhere. With other songs from her new EP, Riddim 5, slowly catching steam, there’s a high chance we’re going to be hearing FAVE’s voice for a long time and honestly, we can’t complain. 

    CONTINUE READING: 6 Female African Artists Topping the Charts Right Now 

  • Fire Your Communications Team If They Do Any of These Things on International Women’s Day

    Before y’all start releasing your #IWD2022 campaigns, make sure you’re not doing any of these things: 

    1. All-male panel 

    Of all days to have an all male panel discussing women’s issues, y’all choose women’s day? It’s 2022, less of this, please. 

    2. Men doing the equality sign when they haven’t shown workings that they believe in equality 

    LOL. Especially the CEOs and those at top managerial roles. The reason why it’s always the men is that it’s mostly men that occupy those positions. Equality my foot. Drop your hands, sir. Face the one wey dey your front. 

    RELATED: How to Be a Feminist That Nigerian Men Love

    3. Silly hashtags that mean nothing 

    Women’s day is actually a day for laughs because the content is premium comedy. It’s on women’s day you’ll be seeing hashtags like #Shesforhes. What the hell does that even mean? 

    4. She-E-Oing 

    Women’s Day is also for twisting English language in favour of women. See also: shentepreneurs and sheros. Why donate to a period fund so that young girls can have access to sanitary pads when you can celebrate the She-E-Os in your community with photo ops and call it a day? Go on, girl, give us nothing.  

    RELATED: 8 Nigerian Women Talk About Why They Free Bleed

    5. International Women’s Day but your campaign has pictures of men 

    It’s like your friend putting their face in front of your birthday card. Whose day is it, please? Ours or yours?

    6. Pink graphics because pink is the only colour women like

    They always use pink or purple because that’s the only colour they think women like. Bonus if they add a cute flower by the side to indicate femininity. Yay, women’s rights. Fun fact: Pink was mostly a boy’s colour until the 1940s but who cares? 

    You can do better with your International Women’s Day content. If you’re not sure where to start in advocating for women’s rights, read how to actually show you care about women

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  • Every Girl Craves at Least One of These 8 Things During Her Period

    Romantic partners are always asking for ways to help with the stress of periods. In this article, we’re giving you the scoop. Here are eight things women crave during their period. Apply with caution sha, as every woman likes different things.

    1. Money

    At the end of the day, money stops nonsense. If you really want to help, start by crediting her account. Dollars is the best way to go but she can also manage Naira. 

    2. Sex

    From the days leading up to the period and a few days in between, women get super horny. It’s ironic because sex is the exact reason your uterus is trying to kill you, so maybe it’s karma? Like your uterus is telling you,  “Since you didn’t fuck to get me pregnant, I’ll make you horny and you can’t do anything about it! I dare you to try me!” Why does our body love working against us? If you’re freaky enough to try it, come and tell us on Sex Life.

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    3. Wickedness

    We have to balance the scales of nature. Why are we suffering for five days and you’re smiling? No. You too must suffer. Don’t take it personal; it’s not about you. 

    4. Everything sweet

    If it’s not chocolate, it’s sweets or ice cream. The funny part is how we convince ourselves that the calories don’t matter because the bloating will go away. Then two weeks after your period, you’ve gained 10 kg. Honestly, I’m tired.

    5. Pepper

    Apart from showing you pepper, she has to eat it. There’s something about spicy pepper soup or spicy noodles that does the trick. So if you don’t know how to cook any of these foods, please stay away from us. 

    RELATED: Eating My Way Through My Period

    6. Hot water flasks

    If you can’t cook, buy her a hot water flask and make sure it’s always within reach. The heat helps with horrible cramps. If she has horrible cramps and you help her with this, she’ll love you forever.

    7. Sleep

    Trying to sleep on your period is difficult but when it comes, it’s the best thing that can happen… at least until our uterus stabs you back to life.

    8. Absolutely nothing

    Leave her alone! Yes. Sometimes, she just wants the world to disappear. So just doing nothing is fine. Don’t talk to her, look at her or even think about her. If you do decide to gift her anything, leave it at the door and go away.

    CONTINUE READING: 7 Things That Belong In A Period Care Package

  • 5 Things We Loved About Guinness’ International Women’s Day Video

    Guinness made an awesome video to mark International Women’s Day on the 8th of March 2021 and we’re throwing it back, remembering all the things we loved about it:

    1. The audacious women

    This short documentary film, titled “No Apologies” featured five fearless and dauntless Nigerian women who also happen to be our favs: Guinness brand ambassadors ex-BBN housemate Nengi Hampson, actor and producer Beverly Naya, Barcelona Femeni footballer Asisat Oshoala, the CEO of Reel Fruit, Affiong Williams and musician, Niniola.

    2. The theme

    Following this year’s theme Choose to Challenge, Guinness inspired women to stand up against prejudices and stereotypes that attempts to put them into cages and stifle their ambition. Who best to challenge stereotypes than our no-nonsense Nigerian women?

    Speaking on the inspiration behind the selection of the IWD champs, Odinakachi Njoku, Assistant Brand Manager, Guinness, when telling us about the reason why they selected these bad ass women as their IWD ambassadors had this to say: “Beverly raised the bar to become a documentary producer with her work – Skin which details the challenges Nigerian women go through due to colourism. Nengi has proven she is more than her face with her foray into entrepreneurship as CEO of Shoes by Flora.”

    “Affiong Williams defied odds to build a thriving business with a 100% female management team. Niniola went from being an audition reject to Queen of Afro-House at a time when the genre was uncool. Asisat overcame massive rejection from family and friends to play at the highest level with the National team and FC Barcelona.”

    E choke!

    “We profiled a wide range of women across various verticals to demonstrate the unrelenting spirit of Nigerian women,” Odinakachi said.

    3. The lead

    The film leads with the amazing Beverly Naya earnestly seeking answers to change and achieving the extraordinary. All the women slowly unbottle stereotypes they have had to deal with on their journey to achieving the extraordinary, answering Beverly Naya’s questions.

    4. The stories

    The short film documented some of the challenges the women had faced while on their path greatness; Nengi dealing with haters, Asisat having to deal with school boys who wouldn’t let her play the game of her dreams, Affion who dove headfirst into uncharted territory, Niniola who was never given a chance by the judges, and Beverly who had to deal with sexist assumptions that she lacked substance just because she looks good. These super women all went beyond to change their narratives. We love to see it.

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    5. The message

    The short film encourages women to own their turf, challenge stereotypes and never take no for an answer. Our presidents have spoken!

    Words really can’t do justice to the video. See it for yourself.

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  • QUIZ: Pick Your Favourite Nigerian Women, And We’ll Tell You Your Best Quality

    It’s International Women’s Day, and we’ve made this quiz to celebrate Nigerian women in our own way. Pick your faves from each group and we’ll guess your best quality.

  • All The Reasons You (Yes You!) Should Be Celebrated This International Women’s Day

    1. Today is International Women’s Day, and we are very excited!

    2. We know many people are going to celebrate important female figures from past and current history and we love that!

    3. But today we want to let all the regular ladies know that they deserve celebration too!

    4. First of all, we slay hard at school, getting that education and conquering all those textbooks.

    5. And we slay hard at work, breaking stereotypes and doing our part (and more) for the growing global economy.

    6. Did we mention the millions of women that push out babies every day like it’s nothing.

    7. Then go on to be primary caregivers, nurturing young minds and bodies to do and be better than them.

    8. There’s also our amazing homemakers, who provide trillions of dollars worth of services for free! Often ignored and derided in society.

    9. Not to talk of the women out there combining work, school and motherhood!

    10. There are women breaking cultural moulds and doing it quietly, today is for you!

    11. Choosing to be more than just an appendage to a man, forging their own path even when nobody approves.

    12. And to the women out there that feel under appreciated, worn out, tired and defeated on many days, today is for you!

    13. Happy International Women’s Day

  • Nigerian Senators Were Incredibly Passionate About Women’s Rights On International Women’s Day

    In a world where gender inequality and patriarchy thrive, people in powerful positions ought to work together to provide equal opportunities for everyone.

    The International Women’s Day was set side to recognise and celebrate all the women of the world for their social, political and economic achievements.

    In this gathering that costs Nigeria over 120 billion Naira annually…

    One would think lasting solutions to the country’s problems are discussed and implemented.

     Unfortunately, our Nigerian senators would rather engage in Oshodi fights.

    Or re-enact scenes from Prison Break…

    Or sometimes compare Nigerian women to objects.

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LGKZBs-p5a0

    And on International Women’s Day rather than address issues such as child marriage, rape, infringed rights to education and other pressing issues…

    They would rather make jokes on how women should be married off in polygamous marriages.

    What’s all this?

    Are Nigerian lawmakers rather very unfortunate?

    Or just incredibly ignorant?

    https://twitter.com/Euphoria9ja/status/707174830936891392

    How can marriage be the only logical way to champion women’s rights?

    Can Nigeria move forward with the rest of the world at this pace?

    Maybe someone could be kind enough to help find the priorities they lost.

    We’re sha not there oh!

    These people should be happy it’s just feminists being angry. I wish women would organise to pelt Senator Ndume with eggs.

    — Editi Effiòng (@EditiEffiong) March 8, 2016

    It’s about time for Nigerian lawmakers to sit up, make research, address issues and make efforts to implement lasting solutions to problems.

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